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Can someone help and explain the following why I've received the following text message:

"Hi, How are you? Amrita xxx"

For those who don't know, Amrita was the airhostess I dated earlier in the year (you can read about my experience with her in 'The Airhostess' entry).  I didn't keep in touch with her after our date as I didn't want to.  I'm looking for a partner, not another friend, afterall.

Why has she sent me a message after 6 months since we last met?

She is interested in me again?

Or is she just being friendly?

After dating countless other guys and comparing them, has she thought to herself that I may be the best one out of the lot?

Is she desperate?

Gift ideas for him

It’s fast approaching that time of year again.  The time of the year when people will be wracking their brains, browsing various websites and window shopping to try and find the perfect Christmas gift for their loved ones to avoid the last minute December rush when all that is left in the shop are paint brushes and washing powder.

Whilst out with friends this lunchtime the girls were all trying to think of something to buy their boyfriends that they haven’t already got.  Socks?  Aftershave?  A jar filled with air?

As girls are more organised, today I will share some tips on what will make your man excited when he unwraps his box on Christmas morning.  Rest ashore, there are no cordless power drills in this list - as much as your man would love it!

Give me some leather!

If you’ve recently started dating someone, a nice leather wallet will go down a treat.  Every man hates a wallet that will not stay closed.  Leather wallets are great for storing all the cards we carry and loose change and notes, and it should be the right size to slip into our back pockets.  Good quality leather products can last forever and never go out of style (which is very important) so you may want to also consider iPad or kindle holders if your man has either of those.

Bathrobe

Is your man someone who likes to walk around the house and relax on a lazy Sunday morning in total luxury?  Why not drape him in a nice stylish bathrobe and spray your favourite perfume on it so when he puts it on for the first time he smells and is reminded of the thoughtful lady who bought it for him?  This is perfect for the long cold winters when he'll be spending a lot of time indoors.

Oh so cosy

Us guys aren’t very good when it comes to looking after ourselves at home which is why we rely on hand-me-down towels and bedding.  If your man is still living at home or you’re not happy sleeping in his cotton bed sheets why not buy him some plush towels or silk sheets (men love silk just as much as women).

Film collection

Who isn’t addicted to Homelands or James Bond?  Your man loves watching them because he wishes he was a spy.  An entire collection would go down a treat for him.

Cologne

Cologne is just as appreciated on the first Christmas together as it is on the twentieth.

Espresso Machine

If you’re in a new relationship I would avoid this but if you’ve been dating for at least a couple of years this will be a good gift as you two know you’re in a sturdy relationship and you’ll both be enjoying the fruits of this gift.  Freshly made espresso at home is one of life’s pleasures.  Don't be surprised if you end up using it more than him and making him espresso in bed!

A classic blazer

Chosen correctly, a smart and versatile blazer can be worn with anything and your man will love it.  This is for the couple who have been together for a while.

Collector’s items

All men hope they discover a rare roman coin whilst digging up the garden or the Holy Grail whist clearing out the attic.  In the meantime, the next best thing is a limited edition watch, first copy of Lord of the Flies or a signed Guns and Roses album.

Music dock

Playing music off a smart phone or laptop is ok but there are so many portable iPod docks on the market that look seriously cool and have great sound quality.  Your man can take this with you next summer when you hit the beach in Newquay or rent a cabin in Lake District.  This gift is a statement so only get this if you’re in a serious relationship and you know you’re going to get that ring on your finger (if you haven’t already got it).

Winter accessories

Unfortunately when it comes to hats, gloves or scarves most men seem to wear items that you would probably find kids wearing on the playground.  Give your man a helping hand and buy him some grown up winter gloves, a thick woolen scarf or a smart seasonal hat.

Fancy a drink?

If you're dating a real man whose favourite tipple on a night out is whisky or cognac then he will appreciate a fine bottle of the stuff.  They vary is price greatly and is perfect at whatever stage your relationship is in.

Sport tickets

All men, no matter what age, love to see their favourite team live.  If he’s not the sporting type why not gift him tickets to see his favourite band.

There is no such thing as the “perfect” gift.  Every man is different, with unique tastes and preferences.  It’s important the gift is thoughtful.  And, at the end of the day, all your man really wants is your company and love.

The one that got away

On Thursday 4 October 2012 I attended a ball at the Intercontinental Hotel, Park Lane, and afterwards I met up with a friend who was at a dinner date event in Mayfair.  She told me a group of them were going to Claridge’s for drink about at 1100pm and invited be to join them.

When I got arrived I said hello to my friend and noticed an attractive girl,  about 5’4”-5’7” in height (she was wearing short heels), lovely soulful eyes, wearing a really nice greyish dress, tights and works as an osteopath.  We all sat in the corner of the hotel bar and the girl and I were getting on like a house of fire.

I was wearing my tuxedo and she asked to try on my bow-tie (I only wear the real-McCoy  - I’m not a fan of clip on bow-ties or fakes).  I removed it and put it on her and we took lots of photos of her wearing it as a funky accessory and also as a hair band.  She looked cute wearing my bow tie and I let her keep it as a memento of our night.

She was there with her friend, Jas, who wore a sexy red leopard print dress and was asking me lots of questions about my job.  Both Jas and her hot osteopath friend were amazing company.

Unfortunately, I did not get the osteopaths name or number!  I am gutted.  I know I should have asked for it but we were so wrapped up in our conversation (and flirting).

I know she’s from west London and had to leave early on Friday morning to fly up to Glasgow for the day for work.

This is my plea to anyone who may know the girl I have written about.  If you know an Asian osteopath who was at a dinner dating event on Thursday 4 October and took away a bow-tie (as well as my heart) and friends with a girl called Jas, and drank a funky coffee cocktail, tell her to get in touch with me via the site.

Thank you.